Episodes

This Shot At Love episode explores how mindset, energy, and surrender shape our dating lives more than we realize. Manifest mentor Lizzie Moore shares how her mantra, I only want what’s for me, helped her navigate heartbreak, release timelines, and attract a life beyond anything she could have planned. Drawing on neuroscience, emotional frequency, and her own remarkable story—including an unforgettable chicken-coop meet-cute—Lizzie explains how vision boards, visualization, and aligned energy can transform both your love life and your life as a whole. Her journey from divorce to relocation, from Long Island to the South Shore, and from uncertainty to deep self-trust offers inspiration for anyone dating, healing, or starting over. This conversation is equal parts soulful insight and real-life humor, reminding listeners that the universe is always working—even when the path looks nothing like you imagined.

In this episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Hollywood matchmaker and author Jaydi Samuels Kuba to uncover the real stories, patterns, and mindset shifts behind finding lasting love. Jaydi shares how she went from television writer to one of Hollywood’s most sought-after matchmakers, what she’s learned from working with thousands of singles, and the surprising way she met her husband while trying to set him up with other women. They explore why people repeat the same dating mistakes, how matchmaking truly works, and the small shifts that help you become more “findable” in your own life. This conversation is packed with human insight, transformational takeaways, and the heart that defines both Jaydi’s work and her upcoming book, Your Last First Date.

In this episode, Shot At Love sits down with Deborah Griffiths, founder of Bent Not Broken, to explore her powerful story of resilience and reinvention. Deborah shares the pivotal moments that reshaped her life, the healing practices that helped her rebuild, and the mission behind creating a community for people navigating trauma, recovery, and personal transformation. Her message is clear and compelling—strength isn’t about avoiding life’s hardships, it’s about learning how to rise from them. If you’re looking for inspiration, grounding, or proof that healing is possible at any stage, Deborah’s journey will deeply resonate.

In this episode of Shot At Love, the roles reverse as Julie Lokun, host of the Get Obsessed podcast, interviews me for a candid conversation about dating in today’s world. We break down the realities of modern connection—why dating apps feel overwhelming, how to recognize red flags sooner, and the mindset shifts that help you stay hopeful without lowering your standards. We explore chemistry versus compatibility, first-date strategy, texting etiquette, and the subtle signals people reveal right away. I also share how my background as a celebrity photographer shapes the way I guide singles toward creating a genuine, compelling online presence. If you’re rebuilding, starting over, or simply looking for clarity in a confusing dating landscape, this episode offers insight, strategy, and encouragement you can use right now.

In this episode of Shot At Love, Kerry closes out her book — and her own love story — with a cinematic twist. Drawing inspiration from Back to the Future, she parallels Marty McFly’s heroic adventure with her own journey through heartbreak, transformation, and ultimately, true love. From crying into a paper napkin on a disastrous first date to sharing a live, unfiltered love story with Scott on her 100th podcast episode, this chapter is both heartfelt and triumphant. Kerry unpacks the lessons of her own Hero’s Journey — facing trials, finding mentors, and learning to trust the master plan. Like Marty, she discovers that courage, faith, and self-worth are the real time-travel tools that bring us to where we’re meant to be. This final chapter celebrates healing, humor, and the power of believing in yourself — proving that every broken road, every “Biff,” and every brave step forward leads to love.

• A spontaneous date inspired by Risky Business and fueled by curiosity. • How ADHD and fear almost derailed the journey — and what it took to push through. • The power of humor, faith, and resilience in modern dating. • Turning an awkward train ride into a story of confidence and chemistry. • Lessons in vulnerability, taking risks, and embracing imperfection. • How “the girl on the train” became a Tinder success story — and found lasting love. • The role of visualization, gratitude, and not quitting on yourself. • Why every “risky business” moment can be the start of something beautiful.

In My Dating Breakthrough, Kerry Brett shares the powerful story of how mentorship, mindset, and faith aligned to create her biggest transformation—both in love and life. After years of heartbreak, Kerry finds strength and guidance from her longtime photography mentor, Jeff Lubin, whose tough love and timeless lessons help her reclaim her worth, rebuild confidence, and rewrite her dating story. From a Florida heartbreak to a Boston breakthrough, this episode shows how belief, resilience, and self-value can change everything.

In this episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett shares Chapter 14, Finding Your Match Made in Heaven, from her book Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Lens on Dating and Finding Love. This chapter explores how belief, vibration, and faith can guide you toward your match made in heaven. Inspired by Law of Attraction expert Michael Losier and grounded in her own spiritual journey, Kerry unpacks how deliberate attraction, mantras, and divine timing shaped her path to love. From chanting the Lakshmi Gayatri mantra to receiving cosmic insights from psychic medium Maureen Hancock and astrologer Jill Jardine, Kerry shows how staying open—even through dating disasters—can lead to powerful transformation. Along the way, we meet Rosie Dalton, whose remarkable story of loss and renewal proves that love can reappear when you least expect it. This heartfelt, humorous, and inspiring chapter reminds listeners that the universe always has a plan—and sometimes, your soulmate really is heaven-sent.

We trace a whirlwind romance from a charming reconnection to stark red flags, revealing how mixed signals slowly erode confidence and how boundaries rebuild it. Humor softens the hard truth: stop settling for “better than nothing” and steer yourself back to self-respect. We explore how social proof can blind early judgment and how first-date misalignments quietly reveal conflicting values. We unpack why public rudeness is a predictor of contempt and how early love-bombing often gives way to sudden withdrawal. We look at the emotional toll of waiting by the phone, and the turning point of choosing to reclaim agency. We reveal how caretaking and over-functioning can mask relationship gaps, and the importance of naming and exiting a situationship. Finally, we share practical rules for spotting red flags and setting healthy boundaries.

A single number can feel like a wink from the universe, but what matters is what we do next. We open with a road mantra and the quiet power of 222, then follow a real-world detour: a chance Tinder match with an old Cape Cod crush that looks like fate and behaves like a flashing hazard. The charm is real, the nostalgia is loud, and the signs are everywhere—some sweet, some sharp. From glossy Boston nights and celebrity cameos to blunt advice from our sharpest friend, we navigate the gap between wanting a story to work and watching the facts pile up. You’ll hear how secrecy around family history, little evasions, and convenient timing combined into a pattern we didn’t want to see. And then there’s the moment at a fabric counter that becomes a small miracle—John Fishman’s mother offering help—proof that when you choose yourself, life sometimes answers back in the kindest ways. Things still unravel: a last-minute no-show, a rough walk to the car, an impounded plate, and a gutting glimpse …

We explore how surrender becomes strength after heartbreak and narcissistic abuse, reframing breakups as successful chapters when they catalyze growth. Practical steps, grounded stories, and Kute Blackson’s insights guide a path from running to resting in self-trust. • using the serenity prayer and mantra to anchor peace • shifting from control to acceptance • five stages of grief applied to toxic dynamics • nonengagement and boundaries as protection • redefining relationship success by growth • small steps that compound into freedom • lessons from Tina Turner and Dolly Parton • moving from searching to self love and trust • choosing optional suffering by aligning with reality Looking for love, my brand new book, Shod It Love, is out now. You can grab your copy today on Amazon If you'd like to stay connected, get exclusive updates, and be the first to hear about Shod It Love live single events, join the mailing list at shot at lovebook.com Don't miss your chance to change the way you …

We remind ourselves: nobody's coming, and there are no breaks. A betrayal cracks open old patterns, and instead of collapsing, we turn pain into performance. We meet deadlines, choose self-respect, and step into a love that matches our effort. Clarity and clear self-talk become our anchors. We begin to see why the patterns with Giovanny kept repeating and why they were so hard to break. Then came the Nantucket shoot, the email, and the pivot. Anger became fuel, channeled into focused, career-defining work. Football even became a metaphor for grit, inches, and mindset. Boundaries were set. The door finally closed for good. And in that awakening, a healthier match came into view, because we stayed in the game. My brand-new book, Shot at Love, is out now, and you can grab your copy today on Amazon. If you’d like to stay connected, get exclusive updates, and be the first to hear about Shot at Love LIVE singles events, join the mailing list at ShotAtLoveBook.com. Don’t miss your chance to …

Aquarian ideals offer a lens for understanding love and healing. Behind the scenes, photographing Steve Carell revealed a lot about creative boundaries. Humor and pop culture can work like medicine when you’re healing from heartbreak. The Mr. Unavailable pattern pulls people into anxious–avoidant traps. Breadcrumbing and gaslighting are part of the painful reality of intermittent reinforcement. Family fallout, being uninvited, and the need to find proof can shake your foundation. Trauma symptoms, the manifesto, and speaking truth to denial often arrive together. Consequences tend to be far more effective than speeches. No contact becomes a practical path to safety and self-worth. Reclaiming your power means rewriting the story and choosing peace.

This section explores how grounding in the divine feminine and using Moose Gomez’s investigator lens can transform your dating awareness. It covers active listening and detail-checking as personal safety tools, alongside the Shawshank metaphor to illustrate how we can stay trapped in self-imposed situations. Listeners learn to recognize warning signs through stories like the Coyote Cameron weekend, the early red flags, and patterns of ghosting and “lost phone” excuses. Ultimately, it’s about becoming your date detective and creating checkpoints to protect your heart and future.

Not All Those Who Wander Are Lost, Chapter 7 of Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love. A breakup can make even bright rooms feel dim, and mine turned everything gray—right down to the paint on my walls. I gave 50 shades of gray new meaning. I tried to muscle through with grit and lonely heart playlists, but it took an unexpected intervention from Red Sox legend Tim Wakefield to cut through the noise. Tim’s straight talk about self-respect, resilience...

When Oscar-winner Chris Cooper and his wife Marianne Leone called asking me to photograph him for Cowboys and Indians Magazine, I never imagined this assignment would become my emotional salvation. With a broken foot and an even more broken heart, I dragged myself to Plymouth Plantation, determined to deliver exceptional work despite my personal life crumbling around me. The contrast couldn't have been starker – professionally capturing one of Hollywood's most respected actors while privately e...

What happens when you swipe right on a contractor who builds homes and hearts with the same dedication? Built to Last: When Love Meets Construction, that's what! Meet Rory Remington, a 47-year-old professional builder from Scituate, Massachusetts—a man as solid as the foundations he lays. During the harshest winter Massachusetts had seen in a century, with record-breaking snowfall burying my world both literally and figuratively, Rory appeared like a beacon of warmth. After plowing Scituate's s...

What happens when your world crumbles beneath you? When a broken foot, a broken relationship, and a broken bank account converge at the worst possible moment? This raw, unflinching episode explores the pivotal moment when crisis became a catalyst for profound transformation. After discovering troubling messages on Kerry's boyfriend, Giovanny's phone, a confrontation led to a painful accident—breaking her foot in three places. Rather than support, Giovanny cruelly accused her of deliberately inj...

A camera captures moments, but sometimes it captures more than you bargained for. When Giovanny Gonzalez strutted into my photography studio in his wing-tip boots and form-fitting t-shirt, I had no idea this headshot session would launch an eight-year romance that mirrored the tumultuous relationship between Johnny Cash and June Carter. The chemistry was immediate and electric. After breaking my own professional rules by agreeing to review his photographs at his place, I found myself mesmerized...

What does it truly mean to find your worth in the midst of life's most challenging moments? Two divorced women with young children—one a Harvard graduate with a penchant for designer clothes, the other a photographer with a dry wit—forge an unlikely friendship that becomes their lifeline while navigating the treacherous waters of rebuilding and dating. Kelley Doyle bursts into Kerry Brett's life like a fashion-forward hurricane, armed with persistent optimism and dating wisdom that initially ma...

The path from devastation to rebirth rarely follows a straight line. When my world exploded seventeen years ago, I found myself in the basement of Rock Bottom – fighting a three-year custody battle for my daughter Morgan after a traumatic pregnancy and birth that nearly claimed both our lives. What followed was a financial nightmare of $130,000 in debt, sleeping with the lights on, and making the classic mistake of jumping from one toxic relationship straight into another. With raw vulnerabilit...

Have you ever wondered what happens when your greatest pain becomes your deepest purpose? As a professional photographer who's spent decades making others look their best, I've lived a life that many find fascinating—capturing celebrities for magazine covers, attending red carpet events, and building a dream studio in a picturesque town. But behind my lens and successes lay a story of heartbreak so profound that I never imagined sharing it publicly. My journey from heartbreak to healing wasn't ...

Have you ever wondered if everything you thought about finding love might be wrong? Kerry Brett's new book "Shot At Love" challenges conventional dating wisdom and offers a fresh perspective based on years of hard-won experience. From growing up in a working-class Boston family where the Brady Bunch and Mr. Rogers shaped her worldview to becoming a dating expert who's made every mistake so you don't have to, Kerry's journey is both entertaining and enlightening. What started as a desperate sear...

When Tina Zhu Xi Caruso and Pari Kim met on Love on the Spectrum Season 3, viewers worldwide fell in love with their authentic connection. Their story isn't just about finding romance on reality TV—it's about embracing who you truly are, regardless of what others might think. The magic of Tina and Pari's relationship stems from their fearless self-expression. As Pari puts it, "I literally go on the train in a ball gown. I don't care. People could stare and say whatever they want, but it makes m...